FAQs

What does an intimacy and relationship coach do?  

An intimacy and relationship coach helps individuals and couples deepen emotional connection, improve communication, and enhance physical intimacy. Through guided exercises, tools, and personalized strategies, we address challenges like trust issues, mismatched desires, or emotional blocks. Unlike therapy, coaching focuses on actionable growth, empowering clients to create fulfilling relationships aligned with their values. 

How is your approach different from traditional therapy?  

Coaching is future-oriented and goal-focused, emphasizing practical tools and behavior change rather than diagnosing or treating mental health conditions. While therapy often explores past trauma, I collaborate with clients to identify negative patterns, set intentions, and implement strategies for growth

What can I expect in a typical session? 

Sessions blend conversation, experiential exercises, and mindfulness and embodiment practices and rituals. For couples, we might explore communication techniques or intimacy-building rituals. Individuals often work on self-awareness, boundaries, or sensual empowerment. Every session is tailored to your goals, ensuring a safe, non-judgmental space to explore vulnerabilities and strengths.

Are sessions conducted in-person, online, or both?

It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more. Or maybe you have a creative project to share with the world. Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.

How long does it usually take to see results?  

Progress depends on your commitment and the complexity of your goals. Some clients notice shifts in 3–4 sessions, while others benefit from longer-term support (e.g., 3–6 months). Consistency and openness to "homework" practices accelerate growth. Just like going to the gym to get in shape, it is a process. My motto is “Enjoy the journey”.

How do you handle confidentiality and privacy?  

Your privacy is sacred. All sessions are confidential, and records are securely stored. Exceptions apply only if there’s risk of harm to yourself or others, per legal and ethical guidelines.  

Relationship-Specific Questions  

How can we reignite passion in a long-term relationship?  

We’ll explore rituals to reconnect emotionally and physically, such as scheduled "Tantric date nights," sensory play, or tantric practices. Often, reigniting passion starts with addressing communication gaps, stress, resentments and stuck emotions as well as unmet needs—small, consistent efforts create lasting change.  

Can coaching help with communication issues or recurring conflicts?  

Absolutely. We’ll practice tools like active listening, nonviolent communication, and emotional attunement. By identifying triggers and fostering empathy, you’ll learn to navigate disagreements constructively.  

What if my partner is hesitant to attend sessions?

Start with individual coaching! Shifts in your mindset and behavior can positively influence the relationship dynamic. Many hesitant partners join later once they see progress.  

Do you address issues like infidelity or trust rebuilding? 

Yes, with compassion and non-judgment. We’ll focus on accountability, honest dialogue, and gradual steps to rebuild safety. Healing takes time, but many couples emerge stronger.  

How do you help couples with mismatched libidos or sexual desires?  

We explore the root causes (stress, hormonal changes, emotional disconnect) and co-create a "middle path." This might involve scheduling intimacy, exploring new forms of connection, or addressing shame/pain/ unmet expectations.  

Can you assist with premarital preparation or major life transitions?  

Yes! Premarital coaching covers conflict resolution, intimacy expectations, and shared values. For transitions like parenthood or career shifts, we focus on maintaining connection amid change.  

Do you support polyamorous or open relationships? 

Absolutely. All relationship structures are welcome. We’ll focus on communication, jealousy management, and boundary-setting to nurture ethical, fulfilling and harmonious connections.  

How do you help singles build healthier future relationships?  

We work on self-awareness, healing past patterns, and clarifying your needs. You’ll learn to set boundaries, communicate desires, build self love and confidence. And strategies to magnetize partners aligned with your values and desires. 

Do you support couples exploring divorce or conscious uncoupling?  

Yes, I guide couples and individuals through both divorce and the conscious uncoupling process with compassion. Conscious uncoupling focuses on ending relationships respectfully, honoring the love and lessons shared, while minimizing harm to all involved (especially children). We’ll work on communication, emotional closure, and practical steps like co-parenting strategies or redefining boundaries. My goal is to help you transition with integrity, whether you choose to repair or release the relationship.  

What is Conscious uncoupling?

It is framed as a compassionately guided transformative process that changes the separation from a sense of failure into a more easeful life transition into a new chapter of hope.  

The emphasis is on reducing conflict and preserving dignity, aligning with holistic coaching values. It acknowledges practical and emotional needs (e.g., co-parenting, letting go of resentment).  Conscious uncoupling reassures clients that all paths are respected, reinforcing the non-judgmental approach it brings safety and respect into these difficult times.  

Tantra-Specific Questions 

What is tantra, and how does it relate to intimacy?  

Tantra is an ancient practice emphasizing mindful connection between body, mind, and spirit. In intimacy, it teaches presence, sensual awareness, and energy exchange—transforming physical acts into sacred, heart-centered experiences.  

What are common misconceptions about tantra?  

It’s not just about marathon sex, sexual enhancements or exotic rituals! Tantra is a holistic philosophy focusing on mindfulness, energy and breathwork, and fulfilling emotional intimacy. It’s inclusive of all orientations and doesn’t require sexual activity.  

How does tantra differ from mainstream sex therapy?  

Tantra integrates spirituality, energy work, and meditation, while sex therapy often focuses on behavioral techniques. Both can complement each other, but tantra emphasizes the *quality* of connection and authenticity over performance.  

Can tantra help with sexual dysfunction or body image issues?  

Yes. Tantra’s mindfulness practices reduce anxiety and shame, helping you reconnect with your body. For severe dysfunction, we can collaborate with healthcare providers for holistic care.  

Do sessions involve physical touch or sexual practices?  

No—sessions are non-sexual and professional. I may guide breathwork or movement exercises, but clients never engage in sexual acts with the facilitator.  

Is tantra suitable for trauma survivors?  

Yes, when approached gently. I use trauma-informed practices, prioritizing consent and pacing. Always inform me of your history so we can adapt exercises.  

Can I practice tantra alone, or do I need a partner?**  

Tantra is powerful solo! Practices like meditation, self-massage, self de-armouring and self pleasuring and breathwork help you cultivate centering and grounding, self-love, pleasure and energy awareness, enhancing future partnerships.  

What are some beginner-friendly tantric exercises?**  

- Eye-gazing: Sit with a partner, hold eye contact, and synchronize breath.  

- Yoni/lingam massage: Non-sexual, mindful touch to honor the body.  

- Heart-centered breathing: Place a hand on your heart, inhaling love and exhaling tension.  

How does tantra address emotional intimacy, not just physical connection?  

Tantra teaches partners to slow down, be present, share vulnerably, and attune to each other’s energy. Rituals like shared meditation or gratitude exchanges deepen emotional bonds.  

Logistics and Practical Concerns 

How do I prepare for my first session?

Reflect on your goals and bring an open mind. Wear comfortable clothing for embodiment practices. No physical preparation is needed—just show up as you are.  

Are there "homework" or practices to do between sessions?  

Yes! Homework might include journaling, inner child work, emotional release practices, communication exercises and mindfulness rituals. These reinforce learning, open create a sense of greater aliveness and build momentum for self improvement.  

What if I need to cancel or reschedule?  

Notify me at least 24–48 hours in advance (policy varies). Late cancellations may incur a fee, except in emergencies.  

Do you provide resources for further learning?  

Yes—I’ll share book recommendations, guided meditations, video tutorials and workshops tailored to your journey.  

Ethics and Safety  

How do you ensure a safe and non-judgmental environment?  

I prioritize consent, clarity, and compassion. You set the pace, and all exercises are optional. My space (physical/virtual) is designed for emotional safety. Upholding integrity is a vow you can count on from me.  

Are your methods trauma-informed?  

Absolutely. I honor your boundaries, bring awareness to triggers, and empower you with skills to handle challenging situations and behavior patterns. Training in somatic trauma practices informs my approach.  

What boundaries are in place during sessions?  

No sexual contact, nudity, or inappropriate touch. Sessions are fully clothed, and all practices are explained in advance for informed consent.  

Can I combine coaching with ongoing therapy?  

Yes! Many clients work with both a therapist and coach. I encourage open communication with your care team for integrated support. 

etiquette

Messaging Guidelines

In our initial conversations, I provide a valuable opportunity to explore your intentions, clarify logistics, and establish a strong, energetic foundation for our time together. These early interactions are your chance to reflect the same care, presence, and integrity I bring to this work.

Please communicate with thoughtfulness and respect. If you're unsure about how to express your intentions or need guidance, I’m happy to support you.

If our conversations begin to move beyond logistical details into emotional, relational, or energetic themes, we may be entering the domain of Relationship Surrogacy—please visit my website to learn more.

Preparing for Your Session

To help you integrate and expand from our time together:

Leave time post-session: Avoid scheduling work or intensive obligations afterward. Allow yourself space to rest and process.

Organize gentle support: If being alone feels challenging, consider loosely arranged plans with trusted friends, which can be canceled if needed.

Coordinate with your therapist: If applicable, consider booking a follow-up therapy session a day or two after our session.

Arrive grounded: Stay hydrated, rest beforehand, and spend time clarifying your intentions. I’m available to help with this if needed.

Self-Care Guidelines

Use the restroom prior to showering so you can be fully refreshed afterward.

Bathe using only natural, fragrance-free soaps, lotions, and ensure all products are rinsed off.

Avoid using synthetic deodorants, perfumes, or essential oils.

We'll begin with a grounding tea

What to Expect During the Session

This is a sacred, healing space—not a sexual service.

No sexual activity or kissing on the lips is permitted.

You may receive nurturing, consensual touch, always within agreed boundaries and mutual comfort.

There will be no internal body contact.

I may offer bodywork or invite mutual touch within safe parameters if it supports your process and you’re open to it.

If necessary, I may ask you to shower again to help maintain a clear energetic space.

After the Session

Following our time together, I’ll reach out to see how you’re feeling and offer support for your integration. Ongoing communication is always optional and based on mutual agreement.

Rates and additional faqs

$555/hour (2-hour minimum)

$5,555/day for 24–48 hour immersions

$4,444/day for travel companionship (minimum 3 days)

A 50% deposit is required to reserve your session.

Location Flexibility

Sessions can take place in your home, a hotel, or an Airbnb of your choice. Emotional safety and comfort are key.

You're responsible for accommodation costs, though I can book on your behalf and include it in your deposit invoice if needed.

Do you provide sexual or escort services?

No. This is not a sexual offering. There is no penetration, oral sex, or kissing on the lips.

Will you travel to me?

Yes. My homepage displays my travel schedule. Travel outside those dates can be arranged if you cover travel expenses.

What types of massage do you offer?

I offer Taoist, Kashmiri, De-Armoring, and shamanic tantric massage. All modalities involve one-way touch.

What oils do you use?

I use organic oils or a blend of cacao butter, jojoba, shea butter, and beeswax. Please inform me of any allergies in advance.

What if I feel aroused?

Arousal and pleasure are natural responses and are welcome. However, we are not aiming for climax—this space is about emotional, sensual, and energetic healing.

Will either of us be nude?

You may undress to your comfort level. I typically remain in panties unless we've discussed and agreed on a specific sensual experience.

Can I try just one massage first?

Absolutely. Beginning with a Daoist Tantra massage is a beautiful way to explore this work before committing to a longer journey.

For full descriptions of each massage type and what to expect, see the Tantric Massage and FAQ section on the website.

Closing Thoughts

This work is designed with deep intention. If the style or tone of this offering doesn’t resonate with you, that’s okay—it may simply mean we’re not the right match. My role is to guide transformation through clear boundaries, soulful presence, and embodied awareness. If that speaks to you, I warmly invite you to step forward.

Yes, I’m Ready.